Everyone has a role model in their life to admire and inspire them in making decisions. Whether it can be a parent, superhero, or just someone they admire. For me, my role model is my father who inspired me. He is the one I always admire in my life. When I have children, I want to be similar to my father to do for my kids the way he takes care of me. He is very knowledgeable, successful, and he has always been by my side to encourage me to be stronger to overcome every difficulty and support any goal I tried to reach.
The first thing is my father is knowledgeable. He is a handyman at my house. If some electronic devices in the house are damaged, he would fix them by himself. In addition, my father is a good chef. Since I could remember, he always treated me with many delicious foods such as Vietnamese food, Thai food, and Chinese food. Moreover, I think he is never exhausted.
He seems to work every day and gets only 4 -5 hours of sleep. For example, he always wakes up at 5 AM to do exercise, and then he runs us business, takes me to school, and cooking. He is a good example for me to follow in my life. My father is not only knowledgeable, but he is a successful person, too. When I was a child, my father told me his story about how he started his business. He used to go to school and work 10 hours a day. He worked hard and saved money to start his business. As a result, he achieved success, earned his employees’ admiration, and his family is proud of him.
In addition, he is smart. He has finished and received a pharmacy degree. Besides running his business, he also works in a hospital. I thought my father is a superhero. He inspired me to be successful. For instance, when I came to the USA, I almost restarted everything again. I scared that I could do that, but I thought about how my father got success, and that has encouraged me to keep going.
Last but not least, my father has always been by my side to make sure I overcome difficulties and progress towards my goal. In my memory, my father was the first person to go through my troubles. I remembered a heavy rain day. The roads heavily flooded. I was stuck at elementary school with thunder, dark sky. It scared me a lot. Suddenly, I saw my father was wading into the water to pick me up.
That incident made me love him so much. The other one, I am fortunate to have my father to push and help me through the hard times. When I was seven, I found it was hard to understand and solve math problems for my competition. However, my father stayed with me all day to help me figure out my problems.
As a result, I passed that competition and that point motivated me a lot for my future. In conclusion, many people have someone to look up to as their model. For me, that is no one else but my father. He is very knowledgeable, successful, and he is a person who has one of the biggest hearts I know. If I did not have him in my life, I would not be me today. Someday, I will have children. I hope I can be as great a father to them as my father has been to me.
Everyone has a role model. Whether an athlete, an older sibling, a parent or relative, or just a special someone everyone wants to be “just like” that certain person. I am a role model to my younger siblings, my cousins, and I hope to be a role model to all of the Wild Life kids. Being a role model means a lot to me, and it is great to know that people look up to me.
I have three younger siblings, all of whom look up to me. Everything that I do reflects upon them. This is good, but also bad in away. For one, I have to be careful in everything that I say and do. For example, if I had bad language in front of my little brothers and sister it would be likely that they would think that it was acceptable behavior and they would do it also.
I know that they copy everything I do, so I try to be extra careful around them. I say a few bad words every once in a while, but when they are around I try to be extra careful. Another thing that they look up to me is for my sports. They want to play all the same ones that I do, so I feel that I have to work hard at them to be good so that they will too. My little brother and sister are my biggest fans, so it is very important to me to keep on being a good role model for them.
Not only do my siblings look up to me, but my cousins do as well. I don’t have that many younger cousins, but Andrew and Jackson McAllister basically idolize me. They wear all of my old clothes and every time I see them they say, “Hey! This is your old shirt.” They have shirts that say, “Joe’s #1 fans,” and they come to all of my baseball and football games and scream at the top of their lungs for me. My uncle says that when they are playing basketball or catch in the yard they pretend that they are me. I love going to family get-togethers and having them cling to my side and playing with them the whole time. It means a lot to me to have them look up to me.
Next year I may be a Wild Life leader for the seventh and eighth-graders. This would be a great opportunity for me to be a role model to many kids and would be great for them because I would make it as fun as possible for them. If I were a Wild Life leader, I would have to show the younger kids that God is the number one priority in my life and should be in theirs as well. It would take a lot of hard work and effort to commit to this experience but I would love to be a role model for hundreds of kids. It would be a great experience for me.
My role models have always been my parents and my uncles. Role models are important to have in one’s life. I am a role model to my brothers and sister, my cousins, and next year I hope to be a role model for all of the Wild Life kids. I try very hard to set good examples and be a good role model, because being a role model, to me, is one of the most important things in my life.
Example #3 – Bruce Lee: An Ideal Role Model
In the Book Bruce Lee: They Died too Young, writer Jon Lewis tells the story of the greatest martial artist that ever lived. Known as Lee Jun Fan only to his family, Bruce Lee was an enthusiastic boy who took a special interest in the martial arts.
Unfortunately, his life was cut short at the age of only thirty-two. Through this short yet unbelievably incredible life, Bruce Lee still proves to be an excellent role model due to his discipline, determination, and self-improvement.
One of Bruce Lee s best characteristics was his discipline. During Bruce s teenage years he was a member of a street gang that simply went looking for fights. However, through martial arts, Bruce developed discipline and was soon able to control himself. Bruce s discipline is easily seen in this quote about problems that occurred on the set of entering the Dragon.
Another problem was that the martial arts extras- most of whom were members of the Chinese crime syndicate, the Triads, would sometimes challenge Bruce to a real fight. For the most part, Bruce would ignore it (30). Bruce s discipline can also be seen in the amount that he practiced his martial arts. He would practice every day for hours, and even as a young child, he was always practicing. Bruce
Lee s devotion to kung fu was total. At home, during dinner, he pounded away on a stool with alternate hands to toughen them (8). Although Bruce Lee is a good role model due to his discipline, it is not the only reason.
The second characteristic that made Bruce Lee a good role model was his determination. During his life, Bruce Lee was constantly plagued with problems. One of these was chronic back pains. In 1970 Bruce injured his back in a weight-lifting session. The diagnosis was that he had permanently damaged his fourth sacral nerve. Not only would he need months of bed rest, the doctors informed him, but he would never practice kung fu again (18).
Despite the doctor’s orders, Bruce began exercising again after only six months, and within a year he was again in top physical condition. Yet another example of Bruce Lee s determination is found in his struggle to get a job and support his family. Once Bruce had gotten settled in America, he was constantly in and out of a job.
He had been paid $400 a week during filming and drove a red Porsche. Now, suddenly, he was forced back to a dwindling income from the kwoon (17-18). However, Bruce kept on trying and soon secured himself a job. Bruce was now the hottest film property east of Hollywood (25). No matter how grim the situation seemed, Bruce always faced it with the uttermost determination, and it is this determination that helped him to improve himself so much.
The final characteristic that made Bruce Lee an excellent role model was his self-improvement. Throughout his life, Bruce always strived to be bigger and better. He had an unquenchable appetite for knowledge and was constantly reading books to gain more knowledge. During the six months when Bruce was bedridden due to his back injury he raised his daughter, and He also undertook an extensive study of the martial arts. His notes eventually filled eight two-inch-thick notebooks (19).
Besides seeking self-improvement in his martial arts, Bruce also sought to improve his abilities as an actor, producer, and director. The problem of who would direct the next Bruce Lee film was easily solved: he would do it himself (27). In order to achieve this goal, Bruce had to read and reread a library of books about filmmaking (27). Through these means and others, Bruce always strove to improve himself.
Bruce Lee is the greatest martial artist to ever live. His life is not only inspiring but also very interesting due to his untimely death. Through this extraordinary life, Bruce Lee has and will continue to prove to be a good role model. This is due to his discipline, determination, and self- improvement. If one quote could sum up his life, it would be this, I m going to be the biggest Chinese star in the world (20).
Example #4 – What Is A Role Model?
Today, sports stars and other athletes are looked up to by all ages. Everyone loves them. They appear on television, there as fame as film stars, and do this with the entire world watching. No wonder we make heroes out of our favorites.
They are seen, as heroes because they can do things that most of us can’t. But if you examine athletes while they’re not on the court or on the field, you can see what they are like in every dimension. Athletes have many positive and negative sides that affect their public face and both benefit and harm their abilities to become role models and they encourage their fans to become like them rather positive or negative.
What Role Models are
Today, athletes are known for wealth, privilege, and fame, because of their talent, salary, and positions as leaders, it’s inevitable that we admire them. We can learn quite a lot from role models like determination and confidence because we try to be like them, you have to love a sport in order to do it well.
When we look at athletes, normally you would say that they do everything good and positive, that’s how they are when they are on TV or something, but real life does as much bad as they do good. In the news all the time, we hear about people like Stan Collymore or Roy Keane had a fight or something, it will not only affect there reputation but it will make children or even adults that look up to them behave like them.
Positive and Negative Role Models
Role Models could give a good impression to someone and make their parents or someone proud but they could also give people bad impressions like taking drugs or having lots of alcohol. I have made a table below a list of role models that give good impressions and the ones who give bad impressions.
|Positive Impression||Negative Impression|
|Gary Liniker||Paul Merson|
|Tony Adams||Eric Cantona|
|Bruce Gobblar, John Fashinu|
Well, you’re probably thinking why these people are positive or negative role models, so here?s a brief explanation of what I think they are positive or negative.
- Thorpe, because it he won all medals that he was in for swimming, he was a good athlete to look up to.
- Casiraghi, I say that he is a good role model because is still injured and still gets paid, plays for Chelsea but loves to play football so he wants to leave the club and join any team even lower divisions.
- Gary Liniker, he was one of England?s best footballers and as far as we know he hasn’t done anything bad in his life.
- Tony Adams, an Arsenal defender, you would probably think he is a bad impression because he uses to drink a lot, but I say he is a good impression because he stopped drinking for the sake of his health, career and sport.
- Maradona, is known as one of the worlds greatest footballers of all time, but he gives a really bad impression because people tend to copy who they look up to and Maradona takes a lot of drugs and cheated in football, using his hands instead of head.
- Hidetoshi Nakata, Japan?s first player to play abroad and Japans best player was not really a good impression because in the World Cup he wasn?t really bothered to sing his own National Anthem and in Copa America Japan was invited but he rejected the International Callup.
- Eric Cantona, former Manchester United player, because he use to foul a lot in football and done a flying kick at someone on live T.V.
- Stan Collymore, because slapped his girlfriend.
- John Fashinu, because he use to set-up matches so he could score lots of goals and win.
- Bruce Gobblar, former Liverpool goalkeeper, because people use to pay him to let goals in and lose.
- Zidane, Juventus footballer, because he wanted to leave his wife (he told everyone) and wanted to go to Spain so he could leave the club.
- Romario, was one of Brazil’s top strikers, in my opinion he is a bad role model, because he use to always bunk the training sessions and sometimes not even attending football matches.
Although it is good to look up to people and have dreamed about being like that person or something, in my opinion, I say that there should be no such things as role models, it influences people to do things what their role model does, mostly something not good, and as you can see from above, all the stuff the negatives do, ain’t that bad but I could keep on naming role models that give bad impressions and I could hardly name 5 that give positive impressions.
It is easy to answer some hard questions such as what does DNA (Deoxyribonucleic acid) stand for. One who studies in microbiology gets that answer in one second. For some easy questions, where do your character and personality come from? it is hard to answer such easy questions. One needs more time to get the answer. Psychologists may be concerned about one?s childhood period and family environment.
The character and personality are under the control of inherited genes but also is influenced by the environment. It is generally believed that the influence came from a family member during the childhood period and would spread to adulthood. To make a good character and personality for children, a family member needs to be a good role model.
The essay? An American Childhood? Annie Dillard is a good example of how a family member has an influence on the children. This essay expresses her idea about her mother when the author looks back at her young age. Children will copy his or her character from the nearest person around them and develop this process until they mature. Family members would be the biggest influence on young children. A young girl imitates her mother and a young boy imitates his father, respectively.
From the essay, Dillard said a lot about her mother?s character and emotion in many points. Her mother is a strong and independent woman. Does the author say,?She was an unstoppable force; she never let go? (210). She means that her mother has strong energy to get something done and she never stops until it is accomplished. Her mother?s character might differ from other ordinary women at the same time in early 1960?s.
Her mother develops the seed of character and personality, which is a great impact and influence on her. For example, her mother questioned her about her assumption that Eisenhower would win the election. ?How do you know?? (210) her mother questioned her. She said that everyone says that Eisenhower would win. Her mother asked? Did you ask everyone?? (210); She would definitely say that her mother was a straightforward person who questioned every detail in conversations.
She had more and more unusual characteristics such as she persuaded the U.S. Post Office to let her keep her old address forever. The author may have learned not to be critical, but also taught her daughter to be independent and strong.
Someone might consider the influence one has and how the environment impacts his or her personality. All the people around children account for the impact of influential people. The role model person might be anyone close to you or might be a hero, heroine, or great scientist. According to the essay?Sister Flowers? by Maya Angelou, she states in her essay about the respected person who affected a positive change in her character. The author said a lot about Mrs. Bertha Flowers whose name was the title of the essay.
The first point the author makes in her essay is that the author admired Mrs. Flowers. Mrs. Flowers is a charming gentlewoman who is an aristocrat in the small town of Black Stamps. According to the speaker, she spends a lot of her time reading poems and books with Mrs. Flowers at Mrs. Flowers? house. Does she say, ?Take this book of poems and memorize one for me. Next time you pay me a visit, I want you to recite?(142). Mrs. Flowers teaches Angelou by reading to her first and lets Angelou recite one of the stories back to her. Angelou learns to listen from Mrs. Flowers first and relearns again by herself.
According to the speaker, when she looks back at her young age, she realizes the precious gift from her elderly friend. Does she say,?I have tried often to search behind the sophistication of years for the enchantment I so easily found in those gifts? (142). Mrs. Flowers gave her a lot of lessons to read, both books and poems. She has a social life with Mrs. Flowers, and communication between them, so she adapted some good behavior and personality from Mrs. Flowers.
The process to select a good role model depends on the experience of that person. A personality and character from one person can link to the other when they are close together. Angelou got excellent motivation and character from Mrs. Flowers.
It is hard to identify that character and personality are under the control of inherited genes or how they are influenced by their environment. From the two essays, both Dillard and Angelou know who plays the role model and how they impact their personality. Mrs. Flowers had had an effect on Angelou; meanwhile, Dillard?s mother has a great influence on her. Both essays bring the journey into the domain of joy and success in both of them, and they show the effect that good role models are on their life. Good personality and character did greatly impact their future life. Readers might consider who has an influence on his or her personality.
A role model is an important person who has an important role in society. He is an example to his people and everybody wishes to follow him and be like him in order to have the same fame that he has. Actually, people make role models; they believe in some people and in their ideologies and they let them be famous by spreading or applying their ideas. We can say that, in order to be classified as a role model, one should be different than other people. One may have extra capacity or intelligence which he proved and that made the people love or hate him.
A role model is, therefore, any tyrant or loving person that made some different thing from other people. Each role model should have some ideologies that he has to accomplish or try to apply to people. Therefore, even if he doesn’t make his values and norms valued in real life, he may leave some souvenirs and some hope in some people’s life. Well, role models exist and have existed since ancient times. They contributed in creating and marking our history by their behaviors.
This paper deals with two considered to be role models: the first one, from the ancient time, is Samiramis , and the other is Zenobia. Two important women who can prove that females were and will always influence and be a contributing member in life and in history.
Some historians claim that the existence of Samiramis is a fairy tale. Some others argue about its period of time. However, because her name was connected to the story of Nenoi and the building of Babel we cannot deny or reject her existence in real life.
Well, Samiramis was born in a strange situation. Some say that she was born in a region near Syria and that her mother was a maid, whose mother left her in the desert after her birth and it is said that the birds fed her . When she was one year old, a shepherd called Samiramis found her. She was a child having a magnificent beauty; therefore, he gave her the name of Samiramis . As she grew up in age, Samiramis became popular for her extreme beauty in addition to her high intelligence. After a period of time, the governor of Nenoi called Mnones saw her. Charmed by her beauty, he fell madly in love with her and decided to marry her. Also, when king Nenos saw Mnones’s wife that is Samiramis he ordered Mnones to give him Samiramis , and he promised him that he would give him in return his daughter.
Mnones loved too much his wife and he couldn’t accept or bear the idea of losing her in addition to the fact that he doesn’t dare to disobey the king’s orders ; therefore, Mnones killed himself .
After Mnones’s death, Samiramis had to marry Nenos . This latest died after 52 years from reigning the country, and he left the kingship to his wife as his only son was still very young . Samiramis spread the news of her reign all over the country and declared that every member in the country should obey her orders . She put in her finger the king’s ring and she sat on the throne .Unfortunately , Samiramis misused her power . She wanted to have an immortal image and an unforgettable name, so she let her people build her the great city of Babylon which needed two million workers to achieve it .
In addition to the great city of Babylon , Samiramis ordered her people to build various castles in which she lived and where she had too many gardens established on her honor. What we should add is that each one of these monuments had her name and a paragraph that certifies the power Samiramis had. It was, therefore, known according to these texts that Samiramis had the strength of a man and that she was able to control the powers of nature, for example, she certified that she is the one who forced the rivers to flood whenever she liked.
Semiramis was an intelligent woman, and she used this intelligence during the war. When she went to conquer India, for example, she covered the camels she had with bull’s skin, so they would look like these latest. So, when she and her army reached India, the elephants were afraid of the bulls and they ran away and that’s how she won the first part of the war. Nevertheless, later on, her trick was discovered, and the Indian army directed by their Indian prince followed them.
While turning back to her territories, Samarium was struck in her hand by an arrow sent from the prince. When she came back to her country, Samiramis found out that her only son had taken over the throne, and he rejected his mother. Feeling a big defeat, Samiramis killed herself in 2069 B.C., and since that time, she was considered immortal, and the symbol of the pigeon always symbolized her, and her immortality.
Now that we wrote about Semiramis, the great queen that reigned during ancient history, during the period before 2069 B.C., it is time to switch to a new period of time that of Zenobia who died about 260 A.D.
Zenobia, born in Palmyra, was the wife of Odenathus, a chief of various tribes in the desert. He had many alliances with the Romans. Therefore, he was known as “Augustus, leader of the east”.
Indeed, Augustus did win a lot of battles because of the help of the Romans. This latter’s nephew assassinated him, because of jealousy that’s why Zenobia took revenge and destroyed all the territories of her husband’s nephew in return to what he did. Now that Augustus is dead, one of his children should take his place and rule the country but since they were minors, they couldn’t rule the country, so she governed first in the name of her sons, but later she called herself the queen of Palmyra in Syria, put on the king’s crown and became the sole ruler.
Zenobia was as beautiful as Samiramis even though she was more respectful than this latter. She had a rare intelligence, had knowledge in Latin, Greek, and hieroglyphics. She took the famous Faotegenes as her teacher, and she knew a lot about Homers and Plato, as she was familiar with their books. As we said, Zenobia was famous for her beauty and she was known for being courageous, brilliant, and intelligent. For instance, she used to follow her husband to the forest during the hunting season, and she was never afraid of the fierce animals like lions and tigers. It is also known that she helped her husband gain the wars he made. She wasn’t a weak woman, and she denied her feelings.
When she governed, she showed her people all the love she had and treated them as she was dealing with her children. She had a strange monetary policy, as she used to spend huge sums of money on poets, philosophers, and artists. In addition, she used to bring them from their native countries, and let them live next to her.
Zenobia reigned in Palmyra. Her place resembled paradise on earth. It contained huge gardens and buildings. All the streets were clean. Her residence used to be like a small city, it had a temple called the temple of the sun, having in its center countless numbers of pyramids. Near the temple was her castle which was as big as a big city. As time went by, Zenobia added to her husband’s territories Egypt; therefore, her occupations were expanded from the Euphrates river till the Mediterranean sea, including Jerusalem, Antioch, and Damascus.
The Roman emperor did not want to consider her as a real queen. This is why he sent his army to her so many times, but each time, they were defeated. But when Lucus Domitius Aurelian became the Roman Emperor, he decided to defeat Zenobia, and he denied the fact that a woman would still be an ally of Rome.
Therefore, he sent his army towards Palmyra to attack it and to face Zenobia, who used to call herself Augustine, referring to the good relationship with Rome. When Zenobia heard of Aurelian’s plans, she was prepared to face him. She knew about his approach as she was hunting.
Therefore, she came back to her town, hoping to defeat him. The servant of the Aurelian army told Zenobia that she should give back the Roman empire all the territories she took, such as Egypt and Syria, as they were Roman territories. He declared that the case was not the same as it had been before Aurelian’s reign.
Everything should change. Zenobia would not be allowed anymore to wear Roman clothes or have any alliances with them. After listening to what the servant said, Zenobia got furious, and she told him that she was not going to give up the territories she had, only to please Aurelian, and she declared that she was hoping and planning to have a larger and a more expanded empire.
After what she said, she took her army to confront Aurelian’s one, and they had a big battle in which she lost. After the battle, Aurelian declared that Zenobia was really a strong woman, who should be honored and he added by saying that he was very pleased for having met a woman like her. Then, Aurelian and his army took the city of Palmyra, and they captured Zenobia.
This latter, not accepting her defeat, gave up eating, thus she killed herself so she won’t see what her destiny as a slave in Aurelian’s palace would leave to her.
As we can see is that we are dealing here with two women Samiramis and Zenobia. The first one Samiramis, lived in the period known as the ancient history, whereas Zenobia lived before 260 A.D. a period of history known as the new period in history. What should be noticed is that these two women aren’t ordinary ones, they didn’t have an ordinary life, but they contributed to the life and fate of many others.
Both, Semiramis and Zenobia were wives to famous kings (and both of them were very beautiful), and when their husbands died, they both were the ones who took the power and ruled the country and they spread the news of their reign. In addition, Semiramis let herself have the king’s ring in her finger, whereas Zenobia did put on the king’s crown. Each one had some political values and norms, Zenobia wanted to enlarge her territories and to expand her lands. In the same way, Semiramis wanted to immortalize her image to her people that’s why she asked to build the great garden of Babylon.
In addition, she conquered a lot of territories and proved that she had the strength of a great warrior. And we can add that Zenobia used to spend a lot of money for the intellectuals so she is a person who loved educated people therefore she loved education. We can say briefly that these two women had a similar life as the ruler of a country, and what is important to say is that both of them killed themselves while feeling defeat. Semiramis felt the defeat when she found that her son rejected her and took over the power, and Zenobia felt the same and killed herself while being a slave at the Indian prince.
Both of them couldn’t bear the idea of defeat after being at the top of their reign. Or we may consider that they don’t like their people to see them like this after having a enormous strength and power. Finally what is to say that I’m not being sexist while choosing two important women to talk about in this project. But it is important to prove that women since ancient times did have a certain power and they did contribute in history.
These two women are considered to be role models as their legend or story is still popular. and as we said that it is people who make the role models, well, Semiramis and Zenobia are important role models that had an influence on people especially on women who took these two as an example and that try to imitate them and let women have an important role in life.