As we get older, more and more problems begin to form. When we reach our teenage years though, it becomes worse. One problem I think the hardest is for young adults is deciding what we want to do for the rest of our lives when we are so young. You can go to college, military, or the working field depending on your preference.
When we’re in high school, we have to raise our hand and ask to use the restroom, go to the office to make any phone call no matter how important it may be and have ridiculous dress code rules. You are treated like a child from kindergarten all the way up to a senior year and yet they expect you to make the most important decision of your life then.
One thing that people do straight out of high school is to go directly to the work field. Although its normally in most people’s best interest not to, not everyone is made for college. Unless you are extremely lucky, it has been found that people who didn’t advance to other education after high school make 85% less than those with a college diploma.
My brother has a roommate in college and his dad dropped out of college after his first year or two and he makes more money than most people will ever see. His wife doesn’t have to work and his kids have it made when it comes to the materialistic things in life. He owns his own real estate company in Pittsburgh and sells and rents houses to people. He does most of his own work so he doesn’t have to pay people to do it, which is very convenient for him.
Although most people do not get as lucky as him, that’s okay for some people because money isn’t everything though. Sometimes it’s better to take time off of school instead of wasting all that money when you don’t even know what you are planning on doing for the rest of your life and going straight to college. There are many reasons why people decide to not go to college, not because they just don’t think that they can do it. Sometimes people have kids before they plan, family problems, or even they just can’t get help to pay for it so it holds them back from attending.
College is an expensive thing that most people don’t want to pay for. You have years of loans to pay back and for a lot of people; they end up miserable at their jobs after a few years. It is also very hard to get help to pay for your college education. When my cousin tried getting help for college because she had a full-time job and no kids she could get barely any money even though she wasn’t getting any help from her parents. If college still isn’t the right thing for you but you don’t want McDonald’s to be your only definite in for a job, the military is a great option. Although you have to work your butt off for it, the military gives awesome benefits.
Of course, it’s nothing that the NBA players make, which is ridiculous, but it is still a lot just for being in the military. A player in the NBA averages about $5.15 million per year and all they do is dribble and shoot a basketball for a living were people in the military have to work their tails off every single day to fight for our country and they only get about $70 thousand per year. There is a lot of schooling that they will pay for you so you can still get an education while being in the military. Not only will you get your schooling paid for, but also you can even get paid for going. Also, they have programs like ROTC where you can still train for the military but you are in an actual college getting your education.
As well as getting your education paid for, you also get free medical care, financial security and you can retire around 20 years before other people do. If you get all of that stuff paid for, is there even anything left to buy? Food and housing. No worries, in the Army, you receive a regular paycheck and free housing including meals. If you live off of the base, you will still receive a housing allowance. Even if the number of free meals and the checks doesn’t cover all of the food you want, some restaurants and grocery stores offer military discounts, which will also save a lot of money. My dad owns houses and rents them out to people and the first thing he looks at is what kind of job they have to make sure they can keep up with rent.
Last summer there was a guy from the Army that tried to rent my dad and he told him that the monthly paying isn’t going to be a big deal because he gets checks from the Army specifically for his housing so it is totally free for him. Although college isn’t everyone’s best option, I believe it’s more worth it than working forever at a job that barely gets you by. Colleges can really help you out when you aren’t exactly sure what you want to do. Some even make you take a full year of general education classes just so you are sure that you want to be in that major. Nobody should waste thousands of dollars just to change their mind like 50-70% of college kids end up doing. Also, most colleges have classes that help you transition from high school to college and help get good study habits and things like that.
For most kids, what they do for the school like sports, music, theatre, and clubs is the most important part of high school. Proceeding to college gives you the opportunity to further your career in things like that where there are plenty of sports, clubs, different bands and also sororities and fraternities. Although that would be going to college for the wrong reasons, a college education, in general, expands your knowledge base, makes you more organized, and exposes you to a whole new world of learning.
There are also so many different types of colleges though. Depending on your preference, you can go to school for a few months or 12 years. There are community colleges, tech schools, four-year schools, and also schools that are totally based on what you want to do.
At the four-year schools, you have to take a certain amount of general education courses whereas a college with a certain amount of month program, all of your classes are dedicated to your major. Every school that you go to has a variety of majors to choose from which also makes the college option hard. There are some things that people will never even hear of until they go to college and even then, there are thousands of jobs you can do with most majors that people will probably never even know throughout their entire life. A lot of people don’t realize that a really big benefit of going to both college and the military is the life long friends that you make.
Of course, you’ll always have your friends from high school, but college and the military both give you the opportunity to start over and make new friends. As you can see, there are benefits to every option you decide to do when you graduate high school. There are also a lot of cons to the option that you decide. It all depends on the person and what they are like. It’s just a very hard decision to make when you are barely old enough to stay outside past 11 pm.
We are very uneducated about all the different majors in college and the benefits of or other options if we decided to not go to college. We have only lived about a quarter of our life and we are expected to decide what we want to do for three more quarters of our life. This decision is the one that is going to affect you for the rest of your life and I just don’t think that we are educated enough to make it.
Setting goals and reaching them is something we encounter every day of our life and more so throughout our adult development stages. As we age, most would agree that we become wiser and our decision-making process is altered due to general experiences and life-altering events such as becoming a husband, wife, father, or mother. During a lifetime, it can be estimated that thousands of goals are established, met, and failed for one individual.
Currently, in my life, I have a vast number of goals that I am currently pursuing and striving to complete. With the proper planning, determination, and will power, I will accomplish all of these goals. As I have entered the early stages of my adult development, I have a newfound understanding of the choices I make today and how they will affect my future.
Academically, I have been a college student for more than 15 years. I recently established a new goal of completing my Bachelor’s degree in Organizational Management. This goal is very important to me for a number of reasons. One, I have a desire to obtain a degree in a field I’ve been working in for the last 18 years to assist my life after the Military. By setting this goal, I have not established something that is out of reach nor is it farfetched. I have given myself a timeline to complete this goal and by the fall of 2015, I will be applying for my degree. This degree will assist me in transitioning out of the Military six years from now.
Ultimately, I am tired of going to school. I have been playing around with it for years and this is my last run at it. There are a few things I have done to keep my motivation high to complete this task going. With the current drawdown of the US Military, it is very important that I complete my civilian education. With that being said, for me to advance to the next rank, I have to complete my degree. I have also encouraged family and friends to ensure that I do not get sidetracked or take a break from school until I complete it. I am also devising a plan to go for my Master’s degree once I finish my Bachelor’s degree. Most importantly to me, I want my kids to know that I completed college.
Hopefully, I can use it as a selling point when I stress the importance of education to them. I am also using tuition assistance from the Military. If I do not complete the course and/or fail the course, I will have to pay back the money for the class. Currently, I do not have money to through away on a wasted ambition. There are multiple professional goals that I have been working for years. I recently moved from Virginia to Missouri. The reason for my move was due too professional business. I came to Missouri to take over a job in which I did not have the opportunity to do in Virginia.
My goal has always been to take over a Battalion Maintenance program and create the best program within the Brigade I serve in. To some, this may be an easy goal to reach; however, others fail at this every day. The difficulty in this goal is that my success falls on the ability of others to complete their daily duties and responsibilities. It is hard to force others who do not have the desire to be successful. Ultimately, in the Army, there are too many individuals around that stay in the service for the paycheck.
With this, I have to figure out what makes their motors turn and attack it. I also have to be able to multi-task multiple projects at one time. I am determined to hold myself accountable for the success of my new job. I have created a task list on my computer arranged by order of importance. I work on this list and make adjustments daily. I have also adjusted my approach and demeanor in order to become more approachable and deal with others in a more caring and compassionate way.
I believe that if I treat people with dignity and respect while showing them support, they will want to be on my team. Lastly, it is important to my career and the advancement of my career that I leave this job successful. Failure to produce results in the assignment would only result in me being forced out of the Army prior to retirement.
I have worked too hard and sacrificed way too much to get out of the Military without any benefits. When it comes to dealing with the Soldiers that work for me, I have established battle rhythms by taking input from all of those involved in our operation. I approached in a team manner and let it be known that if one succeeds, we all succeed. This action has made our operations take a complete turnaround overnight.
The most important goal I have today is to become a better father and husband. I am not bad at either nor have I ever been but there are things that I want to change. I look at my family and see that as the kids are getting older, we spend less and less time together as a family. It is hard enough to be in the Military.
I have spent half of my marriage in other countries missing months and months at a time. On top of that, with our individual functions daily, it is hard to spend quality time together as a family. It is important to me that we sit down and talk to one another about our days, the things we did, or the things we look forward to doing. This goal is important to me because my family is everything to me.
When my kids are grown and have families of their own, I want them to say this is how I was raised and this is the way my family did things. I do not want a family who eats fast food on the couch every night at different times, I want to sit down and have a home-cooked meal at the dinner table while talking about each other’s days.
I have made a large number of changes in my life in the last few months that have forced me to start the right changes. Some things I have done turn off the TV and in simpler terms, we have banned eating in front of a TV. With that, we eat dinner together as a family every night at the dinner table. Since we have moved, our house is designed in a way that forces us to see one another more and more often.
We have developed a family game night and a family movie night that we will do as often as possible. Our youngest son has a minor case of OCD and he reminds us that we have to have these nights or he has what I would consider a meltdown. I continue to remind my beautiful wife and children of my plans and desires for our family.
We have open topics about this and we hold each other accountable for this goal. It will take a group effort for me to be successful in regard to this goal. Major proponents of adult education believe that adults learn differently from children (Mossler, 2013). With the differences in life experience and different factors of motivation, it is easier for an adult to establish and conquer goals later in life. I am fully confident that these goals of mine will be accomplished. I am wiser in my decision-making process these days and I have not created goals that are out of reach.
The traits that I carry both in my opinion and the personality trait test I took would state the same thing. I am very calm and organized currently in my life and that brings together the balance and attitude required to reach my goals. In the past, I have struggled to make the right decisions however, the older I get, the more ability I have had to reach my goals. The biggest factor is that I have not established unreachable goals.
Education has become an important factor in the ever-volatile world, from elementary school to junior high-to-high school. Individuals who are fortunate to obtain an education do so, but they never think much of it until the concluding days of their high school years. Concerns about life beyond high school strike many profoundly, while others possess a clear vision of their desired future, which may include college. Personal growth and success derive from the experiences one obtains and encouragement one receives, all in which leads one to pursue higher education.
All the years’ students invested in primary and secondary school had to lead them to believe that grades ultimately reflect one’s knowledge and abilities, however straight A’s do not merely represent one’s intelligence; rather, the experiences he or she acquires do. When I was younger I remember my oldest sister was always out and about, “volunteering,” as she would call it.
However, I never understood the purpose of it because she wasn’t getting paid; it was like she was just wasting her time, but she assured me that I will one day come to understand. As time progressed, my brother and sisters went off to college and I was constantly encouraged by my family to do well in school so that I can one day attend college also. I began to realize that something about college must be important and all I knew was that I must obtain good grades in order to go to college.
I believed that students who received 4’s and A’s were the educated ones, so I, too, tried my hardest to obtain 4’s and A’s to succeed along with them. However, throughout my time in high school, I begin to realize that one can easily obtain straight A’s if he or she chooses to take non-challenging classes. Thus grades do not ultimately reflect one’s knowledge. Also, being educated doesn’t mean that one must be really smart. In my belief, an educated person would not only receive good grades but receive good…
Goals are achieved in different ways by different people. Goals can be joining a sport, making new friends, or even as simple as becoming organized. However, in order to achieve your goals, you must have the ability. My abilities to be respectful and calm will help me to have more honor classes, graduate with a 4.0 or higher, go to college, and become a pediatrician.
Before I become a pediatrician I will need to use my abilities to do so. As was said before, my strengths are being respectful and being calm. Because my high school goals are having more honor classes, and having a GPA of 4.0 or higher my strengths help me to achieve these goals. Being disrespectful and not calm to teachers will allow teachers to not take me seriously and be disrespectful to me. This will jeopardize my chances of getting good grades and having honor classes.
However, if I am respectful and calm to my teachers, they will understand my abilities and will allow me to have more honor classes, and have better grades to achieve my high school, and my after high school goals. My after high school goals are to attend a university and become a pediatrician. In order to accomplish this, my strengths will help me to have better interaction with people.
If my attitude towards people I meet is disrespectful and uncalm it will become an issue to everyone I meet, especially if I attend a university far from home. These are the reasons why my strengths will help me to achieve both of my high school and…
After receiving my high school diploma, I would like to pursue a career in the medical profession specifically; I would like to become a Registered Nurse. A nurse is a profession that provides care for sick, the injured, and other people in the need of medical assistance.
Nurses also work in health insurance companies, research institutions, and pharmaceutical (medicinal drug) companies. According to Segovia Bain “nurses record patient medical histories and medications, operate medical machinery and help with follow up care and rehabilitation (World Book Student).
This career path interests me because of the educational training requirements, working conditions, earning potential, and future employment opportunities.
Nursing began as a practice reserved for men. The first nursing school was established in India in about, 250 B.C., but it wasn’t until the 1800’s nursing education was primarily received from the hospital than colleges. At this time, now students mostly dustings and doing dishes. They worked 10 to 12-hour shifts. Later, responsibilities like sterilization of the equipment, and like cleaning rooms or needles.
By the time World War II started, nurses were removed from the hospital to bedside by wounded soldiers. In 1980, started a need for travel-nursing agencies has started, which made numerous job positions. “Registered nurses are expected growth, more by the year 2014” (What comes to mind when you think of nurses?)
Registered Nurses mostly have an associate degree. The curriculum for this degree includes commutation, and organizational skills to coordinate, supervise, and manage or train others to accomplish a goal.
Registered nurse’s job duties also include developing day-to-day nursing care plans for both in the hospital and for care. “Employees in these occupations unusually need one or two years of training involving both on the job experience and informal training with experienced workers “ (On*net).
Most nurses work in hospital and home health care. Nurses spend a lot of time walking, standing, and bending. It’s possible for them to get an injury, like back injuries. They also like, moving patients a lot. Nurses are most likely to work 24 hours shifts.
They work on nights, weekends, and holidays. “Nurses who work in offices, school, and other places that do not provide 24-hour shifts care are more likely to work regular business hs”. (Working environment). The Salary range for registered nurses is between 58,000 to 66,000 a year. The average amount for a registered is 64,000. This median range is about half of what the workers in this occupation earned while more than the amount and of the half.
Registered nurses have good benefits such as flexible work schedules, childcare, educational benefits, and nurse’s bonuses. Because patients in hospitals and nursing care facilities need round-the-clock care, nurses in these settings usually covering all 24 hours. “They may work nights, weekends, and holidays. They may also be on-call, so that means you have available on short notice.” (Earnings and Wages”).
The employment of registered nurses is expected to grow 26 %, from 2010-2020 faster than the average for all occupational growth will increase because of things like the advancement of technology or the aging baby boomer population.
The growth rate is faster in traditional hospitals. Job opportunities for registered nurses are excellent. Registered nurses are needed for family-friendly work schedules. “Generally registered nurses with at least a bachelor’s degree in nursing (BSN) will have better job aspects than those without One”.
(Job Outlook) You will need many skills to be a house such as excellent people skills, good communication, even dealing with emotionally charged situations You also need the ability to answer questions and offer advice. This profession is based solely, on the drive to learn new things. “The definition of a nurse: to go above and beyond the call of duty, the heart, and soul of caring, a unique soul who will pass through your life for a minute and impact it for an eternity.
An individual whom you may feet for only a 12 hour period, but who will put you and yours above theirs.” (McKenna). Nursing seems like a very fun, creative, and fast-paced profession that would be very fulfilling to work in.
After high school, there are numerous things I want to do and accomplish in my life. My admirations aren’t much different than the average person, but it will still take a lot of hard work to get to where I want to be. I have many goals, but to accomplish these goals I have to get through the many obstacles that could get in the way.
Even though I am not finished creating my goals and aspirations, I already have many. The two most important are to be happy and successful. I want to be happy because even if I become rich or famous if I am not happy in life nothing else would matter. Success for me is simply doing something that I’ve always wanted to do. That in itself is quite an achievement.
First, I want to attend college and law school. After I start working for a few years, I plan to settle down, get married, and have children. I still want to have a career, but I want to raise a family too. I’m not sure what will happen after this or that even this will take place because I can’t really plan out my life. Life is an unpredictable thing.
There are many obstacles that may get in the way of perusing my goals. You never know what will happen next. Some of the obstacles are college and law school. It takes a lot of studying, hard work, and determination in becoming a lawyer. I know if I stay focused I have the power to get over the obstacles that stand in my way. Determination is not a teachable skill, but it has to take place to accomplish goals in life.
I am not sure if this is the way I want my life to be. Life tends to change direction very often. What I plan to do now might not be what I want to do in a few years. Even if my plans do change, I will always have goals for myself. With hard work and determination, I plan to accomplish my goals, whatever they may be, and live up to my full potential.
Example #7 – Interesting ideas
Actually, by the time I was halfway through high school, I had no goals and had no desire whatsoever to further my education. Instead, I went to a vocational school to learn secretarial skills. 15 years later, I have earned an associate’s degree in business and working on my bachelor’s in psychology. And believe it or not, at 33 I still don’t know what I want to be when I grow up!
I graduated high school not really having a clue as to what I wanted to do.. after carefully thinking things over I decided to pursue a career in medicine b/c I thought there will always be some form of work out there for me. I am going into my third year of college and am working on a bachelor’s degree in Biology. After that, I will continue my education to graduate school to become a pharmacist. After that, I have thought about working as a pharmacist for at least 7 years and then maybe returning to school to get a degree in anesthesiology.
My goal after high school is to get into Stanford University. I want to earn my bachelor’s degree in Biology. Then I want to go to medical school and become a family doctor. I have worked hard ever since the beginning of middle school, and I am currently taking all honor classes in high school.
This is a difficult and vague question because you didn’t specify what your background was before graduation, and what are some things you intend to make happen in your life.
But then if you knew those things, perhaps you wouldn’t be asking this question on Y!A in the first place.
When I graduated from high school, one of my obvious goals was that I wanted to go to college. And since education in my country sucks, I opted to go abroad. I picked a major / program at a campus, had dreams about where this major would take me, the travels I’d be taking in this new country, and was determined to work hard to make it to the top of my class.
These came with a lot of additional goals that didn’t necessarily have to do with my studies per se, but more with life experiences. I finally got to live on my own, so an important goal to set was that I could master the art of running my own household, being fully responsible for things like cleaning, cooking, organizing, budgeting, etc.
Since I was becoming an adult, then, of course, I wanted to gradually become financially independent, so this meant that I’d be working odd jobs throughout college. Not necessarily fully supporting myself yet, because my studies remained the higher priority and I didn’t want my number of hours working to take away time and energy that I should be dedicated to studies. But at least I should have some steady paychecks earned from my own sweat which I could divide into savings and spendings (such as buying new clothes, hobbies, and traveling).
Then what’s going to college without all the friends you make while there. I wanted to make friends and was actually quite particular about the kind of people I wanted to befriend. So I packaged myself in a way that made me attractive to people. At first, this might mean paying attention to the way you perform in academic, professional, and social settings because people are always attracted to people who perform well. Study hard, get good grades, get recognized for your talents, and it will attract classmates who will want to work with you and learn something from you. At your job, deliver the best service with patience, perseverance, and dedication, and you will gain respect from your employer and colleagues. And if you have hobbies like music, photography, cooking, sports, writing, drama and whatnot, pursue these with passion and create excellent works that tell a story about who you are inside.
These things will attract people who want something from you, even if it’s something as sincere and innocent as the desire to be inspired by you. However, from these people, you can select an inner circle of true friends who truly share your values in life and are willing to stick up with you when the going gets tough.
Most people would experience some of these friendships turn into romances. So yeah I think having goals in the dating department is legitimate. Some will stick to open friendships and casual dating because they feel that they’re not quite ready yet to settle with someone. Others may have a goal to find a soulmate to stick to long term, if not for life. But be careful when setting goals in this department, because no matter how good a boyfriend/girlfriend you can find, they are not there to make your dreams come true.
They have their own dreams to pursue, and you wouldn’t like it either if they were merely using you to get to those dreams, even if they packaged it with well-meaning words like “You really could be a better person by changing yourself in the following ways.” Relationships are all about embracing the unknown and making a conscious decision every day to keep loving your partner for who they are, no matter what they throw at you along the way (except when they prove to be abusive, dishonest, or otherwise dangerous).
Then some of the more mature college students live with a realization that they are part of something bigger than themselves, i.e. a nation and a generation. College is an important time in one’s life where one’s idealisms are formed. Idealisms are things you care about, that you’re willing to sacrifice for, that you dream to make better and more perfect by working them according to your values. For some people, this can be expressed through their involvement with charities and other philanthropic outlets.
For others, it may mean producing creative works like music and indie films and photography. Some others channel it by participating in political activism and writing about important issues in the mass media. For others still, the pursuit of idealism could be something as simple as being faithful to day-to-day commitments like studying, working, taking care of the home, and cultivating happy relationships because these require hard work in themselves and those who manage to master them should be proud of themselves.
Well, that’s my take. Your goals could be entirely different from mine. Good luck with deciding.
It depends on what is important to you because people have different goals. Among the goals that people might have are:
- Graduate from college
- Go to grad school/med school/law school
- Enter the military to become a pilot/become a warrior/become a sharpshooter/learn to fly/see the world/serve your country/pay for your further education/get out of town
- Get some technical training in a specific field
- Travel around the country/to Europe/to Asia/to Africa/to the Caribbean/to Alaska/to Hawaii/to Australia/to South America/to see the Pyramids/the Eiffel Tower/Pearl Harbor/Times Square
- To play/perform in a band
- To be an actor/singer/dancer/musician
- To have a happy marriage
- To raise a happy family
- To own your own home
- To buy a car/motorcycle/truck/camper/boat
- To climb mountains
- To parasail or surf or waterski
- To parachute from a plane
- To try out for American Idol
- To have a gallery show of your art
- To give back to your community
- To be a millionaire by _____ (whatever age)
- To own your own successful business and be your own boss
- To be active in your church/synagogue
- To improve the environment
- To get involved in politics
- To rescue animals